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Riding with my son - from balance bike to blue trails by the age of 5

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#1 ·
Hi folks, I'd like to share my experience with raising a little shredder from his balance bike to my riding buddy doing 25km / 3 hour rides with me by the age of 5.

12" balance bike - Early Rider Alley Runner 12
Little guy loved to ride his plastic toy trike from very young age, so as soon it was possible, we started him on a balance bike when he was about 2 years and 3 months. We chose Early Rider Alley Runner 12 for it's top level quality construction and low weight. Wheels use sealed cartridge bearings and are super smooth. It doesn't have a brake though:)

We kept bringing the balance bike everywhere we went, whether it was a 5 minute walk to the park, or a day trip. Sometimes, this was annoying as we had to carry both the kid and the balance bike, but he was learning fast and there was less and less carrying.. I think this was the most important part of the whole process as it did set him up for a very fast progress later on.

First 16" pedal bike - Early Rider Belter 16
He started riding his first pedal bike at the age of 3 years and 2 months. Low weight was our priority when choosing his bike. After some research we picked the Early Rider Belter 16". We already knew the brand from his balance bike - the Alley runner 12. The build quality was amazing and the same applied for the pedal bike. I've swapped the original handlebars for carbon and made a final weight of about 5.5kg (±12 lbs).

The whole switch to pedal bike took him about 5 minutes thanks to his balance bike skills. We hid the balance bike and it was pedal bike only from that point. I think this is the second key thing, as many kids refuse to ride on a new bike, if the old balance bike, which they are comfortable on, is still available.

I'm not a big fan of training wheels. I rather prefer walking behind the kid and supporting him by his back, not the bike seat, so the kid has to keep the balance on his own. I've successfully tried this method with friend's kids and they all rode without the training wheels within minutes.

For the next season, we swapped the road tires for knobby ones and off to the forest we went (june 2019, 4 years a 1 month)


There were 2 problems that emerged quite soon: original pedals didn't have much grip and his feet would slip. Also his hands would get tired very quickly by using the cable V-brakes, that came on the bike, even with child specific levers. We changed the pedals to Xpedo Traverse 9. They work much better and match his foot size better too. We later moved them to his bigger bike.

As he got stronger over the fall and winter (he rides all year long as long as there's no snow outside) we started doing longer rides in the spring (April 2020, 4 years and 11 months)


As the bike used a belt instead of a chain, the energy loss in the drivetrain was much lower and he could pedal up some serious hills even with a singlespeed. When the gradient got too steep, I'd ride next to him and push him up the hills. Later we found that a bungee cord works very well for towing. We connected 2 thicker ones with loop to loop connection and put 2 carabiners at the ends. This could be easily attached to his head tube and my seat tube. The elasticity takes away any jerkiness when pulling him. Hooking him on and off takes about 15 seconds and I wrap the rope around my frame when not needed. Ha manages to ride up to 25km (16 miles) and 3 hours like this.

With towing, it really important to talk the kid through what's going to happen and establish some clear instructions, that you repeat every time you are about to start or stop. That way, the kid is always focuses and knows what's gonna happen next.

We had a hard time finding high quality knee pads that would fit his tiny knees. We ended up with POC VPD Air elbow pads, which suit his knees very well in size Small and he can pedal in them comfortable despite them being elbow guards. We use O'Neal Peewee Elbow Guards for his elbows but we'll upgrade them soon as they tend to slip when he crashes.

Moving to 20" wheels

We picked up a new 20" bike for his 5th birthday. Weight was again a high priority, together with hydraulic disc brakes. 2 bikes made it to the final selection:

V-pace MAX24 - weighing only 7.5kg with a carbon fork, 29" wheel geometry, high level components, but higher price
Early Rider released a new Hellion 20" this season with rad geometry for trail and DH riding, wide tires, usable air fork and reasonable weight (9.5kg). It was also cheaper than the Max24.
We chose the Early rider Hellion 20" mainly because of it's geometry, better manoeuvrable 20" wheels and availability because of Covid (Max24 was on backlog for months).

At first I was worried that the air fork will be just a dead weight with such a light kid (he weight just 17kg/38lbs) but the RST Spex air fork works rather well and he even manages to use the full travel on it. The compression setting make significant difference too.

Hydraulic Shimano Deore brakes solved the problem with sore hands and he can also modulate the power rather nicely.

There were some minor adjustments needed on the bike that I'd expect to be sorted out directly from the factory at this price point.

I had to move the bottom bracket washers to adjust the chainline, so he could easily shift to lower gears.
Derailleur cable enters the frame on the right side which meant the arc from the shifter was too steep. Also, the Shimano Deore shifter has too long free throw. Little one couldn't push the lever far enough to shift to a lower gear. I reinstalled the cable with slightly longer housing and swapped the shifter for Shimano Saint and now he's able to shift up 3 gears at once. He also has Multi release for shifting down 2 gears at once and he really likes it.
I also swapped the original 560mm aluminum handlebars for 620mm carbon one and lost about 140 grams. I wanted to shorten them first, but the extra width helped with his arms position as it pushes his elbows out and it gave him more control in steeper terrain.

I removed the heavy BMX tubes that came on the bike and converted the wheels to tubeless with Stan's NoTubes sealant and some tubeless valves. This removed another 400 grams. One might consider these changes over the top, but for kids, this makes a huge difference. You can see the results on the videos bellow.

Moving to 20" wheels was smooth again and he adjusted within a day. The minimum child height recommended by the manufacturer is 117cm, but my kid is only 112cm and manages to control the bike and get on and off on his own. His saddle is already up about 3 inches for good pedalling position.

Check out or detailed review of Early Rider Hellion 20" with more pictures.

We tried a local DH trail after about a month on his new bike (June 2020, 5 years, 1 month)


It was necessary to upgrade his helmet at this point. He was picking up speed and the hornet colored Little Nutty helmet was not fitting as I'd like anymore. After some research and a good online deal, we've bought a Bell Super DH with a removable chinbar and spherical MIPS system. It fits his 51.5cm head well in size Small and we use the chinbar regularly as it's easy to install or take off without removing the helmet from his head.

Since then we've been discovering new and more advanced trails. These days he's discovering how to jump and lean the bike properly in the corners.

I keep updating his progress and videos on https://unluckypete.com/little-shredder and https://unluckypete.com/videos if anyone is interested.

The key things I learned from this experience and would recommend to other parents:
- Let them learn on a balance bike without pedals first
- Don't use stabilizers but help your kid balance pushing them by their back, not by the bike (they will cheat:)
- Don't be too overprotective. Equip them with a good helmet and knee/elbow pads and let them fail
- Buy a high quality and light kids bike. This can make or break their relationship with the bike
- Don't be afraid to push them (and you) out of their comfort zone little by little
- Ride with them as much as possible

He has a younger sister who turned 2 this august, so I'm starting a round two:)
 
#2 ·
The key things I learned from this experience and would recommend to other parents:
- Let them learn on a balance bike without pedals first
- Don't use stabilizers but help your kid balance pushing them by their back, not by the bike (they will cheat:)
or ...
We just had a BSO with stabilisers till age 5.. took the stabilisers off and had a half decent 20 by the next week and 2 weeks later did a 30km ride and 3 weeks on his first red.

Doesn't really seem to have made any difference either way.
What seems common with his riding buddies is not balance bikes or not but
Ride with them as much as possible
and making it fun.
 
#3 ·
Sure, every kid is different. I'm speaking from my experience, where I helped to teach couple of friend's kids too, and kids who rode with stabilizers before, took little longer to start riding on their own. Little ones coming from balance bikes straight to pedal bikes without stabilizers were riding in no time..

My kiddo is currently learning to jump, it's super cool to see him excited after getting some air:)

 
#4 ·
Sweet! Great to see that you're enjoying the journey of getting your son into riding.

My boys are now 15 and 18. The 18 y.o. isn't so interested in riding but my 15 y.o. is joining me regularly. The motivation for my 15 y.o. is that he gets bored around the house and likes checking out new places.

FWIW, starting off on a balance bike is totally the right way to go. I started my older son off on a 12" bike with pedals taken off in 2005. He learned to balance and pedal a bike in about 6 weeks. My wife insisted that we put my younger son on training wheels. He was stuck on training wheels for 18 months (age 5.5) until our German neighbor insisted that it was time for him to learn to ride a bike. She loaned us their balance bike and he was zooming around in about a week.
 
#5 ·
FWIW, starting off on a balance bike is totally the right way to go. I started my older son off on a 12" bike with pedals taken off in 2005. He learned to balance and pedal a bike in about 6 weeks. My wife insisted that we put my younger son on training wheels. He was stuck on training wheels for 18 months (age 5.5) until our German neighbor insisted that it was time for him to learn to ride a bike. She loaned us their balance bike and he was zooming around in about a week.
So another way to view that is a week longer than the 10 seconds many kids take removing the training wheels.

The reason this is important is many parents feel they "must" buy a balance bike because of the pervasive marketing. Over the years many of them have asked us and we also have plenty of time with other parents who's kids share the podiums.

What I can say from all that is overwhelmingly the it's the parents who are concerned about getting their kid riding not the kids desire to ride a "proper bike". Disturbingly often they are surprised and on occasion express dis-belief.

In our case he simply asked one day if he could ride his 12" BDO without stabilisers could he have a "real bike".

He's now 11 and coaches (some of the kids he coaches are sponsored)
He can spot younger ex-balance bike riders a mile away because they have a tendency to take their feet off the pedals when things get scary.
 
#6 ·
We are balance bike proponents, altho my oldest started off on a BSO w training wheels at 5. Here is what we have found to have helped our family.

1. Balancing building confidence with riding with older better riders to challenge and keep growing.

2. Progression. We keep it fun, but what really motivates all of our kids is learning new tricks, clearing new lines, riding new trails. Each day we ride we encourage them to try something they haven't tried before. It can be the smallest thing.

3. Ride a lot. There are times they wake up early and can't wait. And times they complain on the way. On the days their motivation is low, we shorten the ride, throw some rocks in streams and grab ice cream on the way.

4. Finding peer riding groups. When we ride with friends everything goes better!

5. Different riding means. We do pump track, skatepark, shuttle rides, pedal days, NICA, BMX race etc. Keeping it fresh has been really key to keeping all of our kids interested.

6. Finding the rt tool for the job. Our kids all have "bmx" bikes for the pump track and hardtail properly sized MTB's for the trails. Watching kids ride bikes too big with the seat all the way up on the pump track hurts my soul! hahah
 
#8 ·
Now I see I should have be clearer with my recommendations summary (sorry, English is not my first language).

- Let them learn on a balance bike without pedals first, UNLESS THEY ARE TALL ENOUGH to learn on a pedal bike straight away

My kid used balance bike since 2, started riding a 16" pedal bike month after his 3rd b-day so I have balance bikes associated with really small kids only.

If your kid is tall enough to ride a pedal bike, there really is no need for a balance bike first.
 
#10 ·
Nice, well done! Those look like fun trails for sure, the jumps look perfect for new riders. Time to stand-and-jam at this point. The "sitting is safe" thing turns into a real hard habit to brake if they stick with it too long. Once they nail that one skill (never sitting), the bike world really opens up.