the best advice that i can give you is for both of ya'll to go and ride them! and whichever one fits ya'll best to get that one. also make sure you like the bike shop that you get it from. i will say this i have the gary fisher mako and i love it! the lifetime warranty on the frame is a plus too. Trek and Gary Fisher have lifetime warranty's on the frame if that helps any lol which with how long you keep your bikes you might want to look into that haha