Does the industry have a standard for how rear wheel travel is measured? One brand may say rear wheel travel is 140mm. Is that actuall wheel travel or vertical travel? On the rear the two may not have the same discrepancy as the front does. I think for me what is more important is when the bike is weighted in a comfortable attach position does the bike feel balanced. Regardless of travel I don't want impacts whith the front wheel to have a noticable effect on the rear and vise versa. I want my center of mass to be the fulcrum point.
There's no standards or accepted tolerance at all, many frames aren't close to the stated travel no matter what way you measure it.
Same goes for any bike metric, you're best to just work on purely whether a bike is riding well or not rather than figuring out ideal numbers unless you are very accurately measuring them yourself
Vertical fork travel is meaningless, it doesn't take a rocket surgeon to figure out that a 65* head angle bike will ride better than a 70* bike with the same fork travel. The slacker the angle the longer the fork has to absorb a bump so you have lower shaft speeds and any acceleration at the handlebar will be longer too.
Rear travel is generally closer to vertical anyway so by that logic you're better off with more rear travel from purely a bump perspective, but we all know that when it comes to riding there's a lot more to it than that.