If its not too late... here's some feedback on the TCS Advanced SX ( I have a couple of years on mine).
I love the bike. It handles really well. The carbon frame is the perfect balance of stiff performance and rough road compliance.
Regarding the PG1130 11-42 cassette... it is a boat anchor! If you don't have major hills, go to an 11-32 (I use an 11-32 on the bike for cross). If you do have hills, buy a Shimano XTR 11-40 cassette, lighter and cheaper than SRAM options. (I run the 11-40 in 'Gravel' trim mode).
The 1x works fine for gravel and OK for road. If I were looking for one bike that will do it all (road and gravel) I would go for a 2x bike. Since you are also looking at the Revolt... you could spend some more dollars and get 2x. With those extra dollars, you will get better Shimano shifters and brakes. Apex has been OK, but the hydro levers are iffy as they age.
Lastly, and perhaps most importantly, is geometry. The TCX is old-school 'cross geometry. The head-tube is super short (low front end/bars). This has made it very difficult for me to get a comfortable fit on the bike. Low is fine for a 45 minute cross race, but for a 5 hour gravel race... it gets old! The Revolt has a much more up-to-date sloping top-tube configuration (taller front end/bars) which will be much more comfortable.
I built-up a set of new wheels for the bike to save some weight. The stock wheels are pretty solid, just not super-light. I did not elect to go to an XD driver, I prefer the Shimano options.