I'm just trying to get some perspective on the rings.
My M760s are well over a year old, still on the original rings. I torque the hell out of them too, and I always ride several times a week. I'm trying to understand why others have problems with the rings. The crankset has probably seen 3-4 chains, but I too am pretty religious about changing the chain before stretch is prevalent. That's also how I get decent life out of my cassette. I use the ruler method; where 1/32-1/16 requires a new chain, but the closer it is to 1/16th the more likely the cassette is shot, so when it gets to 1/32 or a little beyond, that's when I change it.
When the rings wear out (maybe soon?) I'll go ahead and buy more M760s because I've gotten so much life out of them.
I barely use my granny gear, so the fact that it is aluminum may not affect me much.
The big ring is missing a couple teeth, but it's big enough that it doesn't affect it at all, and again I barely use it, except for the rare open road.