I found some 12g, not sure if they have it for 29ers. Probably more than anyone needs. You'll probably have rim problems with those as well.
http://www.danscomp.com/435925.php
http://www.danscomp.com/435925.php
DB 2.0/1.8 are actually less prone to break at the elbows than strait gauge 2.0 due to better stress distribution along the length of the spoke.Straight gauge 14g/2.0mm spokes and brass nipples are a very robust combination.