Ok, I just can't get myself to buy the f99. I want something light, but just can't get myself to trust something that light. I am 135 lbs and ride mostly XC so most would probably say that I wouldn't have any trouble with the f99, but I am going to go for something a little stronger. So what options are there? I currently have an older s-works stem at 180g so I am looking for something that will be relatively strong but hopefully fall somewhere between the weight of the s-workd and the f99. For example a light, strong stem designed for use on an all mountain kind of bike. They say pick two: light strong cheep. I am picking the first two, light and strong.