I'm with Shayne on this one....
The 9 speed system shifts a bit quicker, less space between cogs. But it does take a bit more attention to keep running smoothly. But it is no harder to set up and maintain a 9 speed drive train than it is an 8 if you know what you are doing. A 9 speed is a bit more sensitive to debris in the cassette, grass, mud, leaves, whatever. I've never worn out 9 speed components any faster than any of the 8 speed stuff I've ever had so I think that one is bunk, but I suppose it depends on the level of components too. Any really stupid light drive train parts, whether 8 or 9 speed, will wear more quickly. The only real BIG advantage to 9 speed IMHO is the availability of components. Higher end 8 speed stuff it getting really hard to find anymore. There is still some nice stuff (XT and above) out there, but it's hard to find.
The bottom line is, both systems work just fine. So wear out your 8 speed stuff, then upgrade if you want to.
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