This is not really passion but need some help here. I know I am opening myself up to lots of jokes here but my "boys" have been taking a beating this year and I cant seem to get the right "adjustment" while riding. I have tried up, left, right, here, there, everywhere but dammit they are getting killed. I feel like I spend my whole ride "adjusting". Does any one have any suggestions? Is it time for a new seat (I am currently riding a Fizik), new riding shorts? What have you done to correct this problem?