Carbon rims hold up great to abuse, unless you've gone with the totally ridiculous HED design, which is generally only recommended for riding on snow.
What they don't hold up to is not running enough tire pressure and bottoming out the rim on rocks.
I can launch huge jumps and come down sideways and my carbon rims take it and laugh it off, the same kind of abuse, big drops, jumps, etc., would taco or knock my old aluminum wheels out of true. Eventually, you'd start breaking spokes or have a rim that can't be brought back into true. Not so with carbon rims, they can take a whole lot more in this respect to an equal weight or even lighter aluminum rim.
Some of the double-wall rim options would probably work great, Nextie, etc., assuming you run enough pressure and don't bang the rim on the ground.
I've seen the "light" aluminum rims fail, there isn't much material there compared to the size. The light single-wall aluminum rims would be my last choice here. You don't want a flexy wheel at that weight, and if you aren't choosing carbon because you DO occasionally bang your rim on the ground, you are going to kill the thin/minimalist aluminum ones fast at that weight.