Since this is for everyday commuting, 160mm will do just fine. The larger the rotor, the more "leverage" against a revolving wheel = more stopping power. Unless of really significant weight in body, cargo and/or looooong hills, stay with the smaller rotor- less prone to getting knocked & accidentally bent. If you made any change it would be moving up a size only in front where your major stopping power takes place, and then only to a 180mm rotor. If you can't get separate sizes, forget all this fuss and worry and know 160mm front and back are going to work not only well, but a brief getting used to for the consistent power over rim brakes. Note: please, please spend the time getting acquainted to the difference.
And if these are new model XTs, they have nice pucker power plus are designed for greater pad to disc gap (less opp to rub)- overall a no fuss brake in your situation with great adjustments for lever placement and engagement being separate- nice.