The only discs you can easily adjust the feel of are the Avid BB7s. You should be able get them to feel close to the same as you have your rim brakes setup.
My preference to to have the brakes work with the lever close to the bar. Reduces hand fatigue, increases control/modulation and is easier to achieve with discs.
My preference to to have the brakes work with the lever close to the bar. Reduces hand fatigue, increases control/modulation and is easier to achieve with discs.