I have both of my 29ers set up very similarly, though one is a single speed. One the ss I am running a 27.5 inch EA70 Monkey Bar. On the geared, I am running a 26 inch Monkey Lite XC (carbon). The carbon does flex a bit more, but I don't always feel that it is a good thing. Not worried about it breaking, but don't know that I like it all that much. I actually prefer the EA70, especially on the ss. I think this is due more to the length, but it is also nice to have a still bar when putting a lot of pressure on it during those steep climbs (not sure they still make a EA70 Monkey riser bar in 27.5?).
The only place that I see carbon really standing out, as far as helping with taking some of the vibration, is on a rigid. Otherwise, that is what the front fork does. Initially, I had a little creak that I thought was coming from my bar on the ss. Turns out it was the stem. Replaced it with a Thompson and creak is gone:thumbsup:
BTW,I weigh in at 175. Never had a problem with breaking anything (yet at least). I am pretty rough on my bikes and enjoy doing jumps and drops that I probably shouldn't. If I see it or know that it is there, I want to try it. Both of the pic below are on the carbon bar. Just two small examples of carbon being safe (as long as you don't over tighten the stem clamp bolts.
So, in the end, if you have the money for carbon and the bar feels comfortable, get it. There is a bit of a weight difference, but not a huge one. Good luck.