I would go with
- Rear derailleur XT ( a bit more durable than SLX, talking about the soft thin cages )
- Crankset SLX
- Shifter SLX since it has the lightes click and the double release XT, XTR shifter have a history of breaking.
- Cassette XT cuz SLX is just too heavy
- Chain XT ( should last longer )
- Brakes SLX, or even Deore. I have the 6100 4-pots. After switching to full metal pads their power is great.